Tips to Get Involved in Your Child’s Activities

Did you know that having a child involved in after school and extra-curricular activities will help them have a boost in their academic performance? Many parents who are not together find it difficult to maintain involvement in their children’s activities. The reason being that when a child is split between two homes, they might not have a stable enough schedule to be able to help their child as much as they need.

When it comes to being involved, both parents need to realize that it is important to work together. They need to create a plan that allows for them to both be involved in activities that are part of the child’s life.

Things to Consider When Getting Involved with Your Child’s Activities

Time Management

Whether you have custody of your child or not, you will need to take steps to make sure that you are managing your time well. You do not want to show up late or miss things that you are supposed to attend with your child. So, make sure that you develop a clear system with your ex so that you can both be involved and that your child has the support that they need with all activities.

Discover New Interests Together

There are so many things that you can discover about yourself and your child through developing new interests together. One of the great things about being involved is that you can find out new interests for yourself too. If your child loves being in a band, you can discover some new music together. If your child loves playing a certain sport, you can spend time watching that sport together or practicing. There are so many things that you can discover by taking the time to enjoy your child’s interests with them and look for new ones.

Contribute Together

You will also find that you can work with your child on developing character. You can do this by contributing to the community together. Volunteer or do something civic together that will inspire others and create important traits in your child such as charity, selflessness, sympathy and compassion. By taking the time to get to know one another and how you can make great changes together, you are teaching your child that they can change the world.

Help Teach Your Child to Set Goals

One of the most valuable gifts that you can give your child is to teach them how to set appropriate goals. When you are involved with your child’s activities, you can help them learn how they are supposed to set goals. Many children try to set goals that are too high for them to accomplish. Work with your child to set reasonable goals that will be achievable for them.

Easy Ways to Maintain Involvement

Start In Court

You can’t maintain your involvement in your child’s activities without first making sure that you have the right to be involved. Many parents do not factor in activities when planning their divorces. Make sure that you talk about what activities you have been active in during your divorce. Try to divide the activities so that your child’s life remains as balanced as it was when you were together.

Keep Schedules Easy to Understand

A key for consistent involvement in your child’s activities is scheduling. Make sure that your schedules are clear and easy to understand. When you do this, it makes it easier not to forget or miss things that you are supposed to be at with your child.

Communicate Changes

Even parents that are together know that one of the biggest mistakes that you can make is to miss one of your child’s activities that you were supposed to attend. That being said, life happens and sometimes things come up that will keep you from attending a child’s activity. When this happens, the first thing you should do is find a family member who can attend in your place. Even if you have to contact your ex, it is in your child’s best interest to have someone there for them.

You will both benefit when you follow through with visits and spending time enjoy your child’s activities with them. Your child gains additional time with both parents doing something enjoyable, while you get to enjoy spending time with your child. Another great benefit to children is knowing that they remain important to both of their parents. Plus, the parents get to enjoy learning something new about their child. There are many other benefits that you too will find as you get more involved in your child’s life.

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